You don't need to listen to this but might I suggest that you set the youtube videos on your site not to autoplay, it's not bad per say but it can be annoying if I just want to look at something on your site and I have to pause the video because I am listening to something else and the video decides to play over it.
I must agree with you!
However, a little trick is to type in either
http://www.ultimatewowguide.com/forum/ - Will get you directly into the forums
or http://www.ultimatewowguide.com/amember/member.php - Will get you directly into the Members area.
If it's technically possible to let members skip the videos, or auto-play at least, then it would be lovely.
If not, then it's probably not the end of the world
Autoplay is kinda important as part of our sales process, hejgaard suggestion is a good idea.
We are working on something to at least eliminate the front page autoplay